Lately I’ve been pondering a lot about how a whole generation of gentlemen are aging out of this arena.  There have been a lot of changes in escorting over the last few years and I find many younger men just don’t know how to act.  If that’s you, here are some tips:

1. Research – just a little time spent on websites can help you be sure you’re contacting the right lady for you.
2. Introduce yourself – you’ve read all about me and seen pictures, but I don’t even know your name.  Try, “Hi, I’m ___.  I’m a __ year old guy in ___.”
3. When and for how long and in what city do you want to meet?  Just come out with it already.
4. Plan ahead – hopefully by a couple days, but at least by a couple hours.  Women are not pizza, we are not just sitting around with perfect make up waiting for your call (unless we’re on tour), and we’re not going to be hot and at your door in 10 minutes.  For one special friend I have left a party around a campfire and gone straight to their house – but most of you don’t want me straight from the campfire.  More importantly, showing that you respect a lady’s time enough to plan your encounter will set you up for a much better interaction.
5. Don’t ask for illegal services or substances.  If a lady sees you after you’ve asked her to do something illegal she is taking a risk.  Most reputable providers won’t see you if you’ve made such a request.
6. Don’t be afraid to provide a little information.  Providers who screen do so for their own safety, not to do anything to you.
7. Remember guys, you are establishing a connection with another human being, not ordering a pizza.